Relationship Reality Test
The Relationship We're Actually In
vs the one you think you're in
10 questions6 min
You are in one relationship. Your partner may be in a slightly different one. This relationship reality test shows where the two accounts diverge. About 6 minutes each.
Free to take. See your pattern at the end.
Scenario-based · Built on established psychology · Not a clinical diagnosis
How This Relationship Reality Test Works
Every question here is a scenario rather than a rating scale. You are asked what you would actually do, so the result reads your behaviour instead of your self-image.
Your result names the pattern, shows where it came from, and shows where it costs you. It is free, and you can retake it whenever you want to check what has moved.
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